(((((HUGS)))))) I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is just breaking for you. I just wanted to let you know that you can email me if you ever want to talk. My mother had 7 miscarriages before me. I was so nervous. Believe me, it will happen. You and your hubs are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you lots of love tonight. I know your seeds of hope are going to grow strong and so will your baby. XOXO
Carrie
July 7th, 2010 at 10:05 pm
Lindsay – I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve had to endure this terrible loss for a second time. Having suffered a miscarriage myself I know how truly heartbreaking and devastating it can be. I hope you can find comfort in knowing that the Universe unfolds as it should and that there’s nothing you cups have done to prevent this. We are never given anything we can’t handle.
Know that I am thinking about you and that my deepest sympathies are extended to both you and your husband. Stay strong. <3
Such a hard sad thing to loose a little one even if the little one was still so much an idea and dream for the near future. I think its wise to grieve and do things to make real what a loss this is even though so many people have no idea and its, for some reason, a taboo subject that makes many uncomfortable.
Years ago I lost a pregnancy at 13.5 weeks. I was so fortunate to already have had two sons so I can’t imagine loosing my first but it hurt all the same.
Having to say goodbye to the dreams of what that little person would have been like made my heart ache for a long time. It still aches a bit for that matter but it does stop hurting as much as time goes by.
In the meantime, be kind to yourself and go through the steps of grief and hang on to your hubby. So great that you have each other.
RIP little one.
Hang in there mama.
Lindsey, my thoughts are with you and your husband. I can’t imagine what you are going through. I think the seeds of hope package says it perfectly- from the soil of grief life blooms anew. Stay strong, you will get throught this!
Autumn Tao
July 7th, 2010 at 10:33 pm
I wish I knew exactly what to say, but I am at a loss. All the best to you and your family.
I am so deeply sorry for the life that you have lost. Even in the early stages, this child was loved which is obvious from your words above. In the future, you will make one hell of a momma! Xoxo
Jan
July 7th, 2010 at 11:35 pm
I just started following your blog and have really enjoyed reading it. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. If you haven’t been already, you may want to get checked for a thyroid disorder, and especially for presence of thyroid autoantibodies. They are linked to miscarriages, in some cases.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I wish I could find conforting words… It’s a blessing that you’re surrounded by the support and love of so many people.
I am sorry for your loss. I can’t say I know what you’re going through, but I know that you are blessed to have such a supportive husband, circle of friends, and admirers. We are all here for you, quite apparently, and will support you along the way–wherever the way takes you. I think it’s great that you’re speaking up for those who have suffered a miscarriage and felt lost in terms of support and resources. I wish you all the best–because a person like you deserves only the best.
So sorry to hear about this. I was touched by your post and have to agree that there are so many incredibly supportive and loving people out there in blog land. I’m so glad to know that they offered you both help and comfort.
I am so impressed with the honesty of this post. I’m so sorry for your heartbreaking loss – I’ll be sending positive thoughts towards you and your husband.
So sorry for your loss…..I’m just catching up on blog posts now, after our trip. Wish you the best of luck in the future. Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts with us….am thinking of you.
so sorry for your loss…I can relate–had a miscarriage jan 5.2002–took a few months to get pregnant again–my son came home from the hospital on
jan 5.2003–the one year anniversary of our loss……what wonderful little helpers those teas could be-how nice of someone to give them to you-that is an awesome idea-great product idea…..many many well wishes for you in the future.
julie
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Priya
June 10th, 2011 at 9:14 am
I stumbled onto your blog today and have been reading it for the last hour. I know this is belated but I just wanted to say that you are such a strong, positive and kind woman and you really are an inspiration.
Btw, if you are still looking to treat low progesterone levels, I would highly recommend chaste tree extract. After years of suffering from hormonal imbalance, I tried chaste tree on the advice of my herbalist friend and it worked wonders on my body. It’s natural, doesn’t contain synthetic hormones and apparently helps with conception. Anyway, i wish you the best with everything! 🙂
you are one brave lady. love you both so much xo
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your husband. And I think it’s amazing that the company sent you such a thoughtful package!
So sorry you have experienced this sad loss again. My thoughts are with you as you grieve and heal.
(((((HUGS)))))) I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is just breaking for you. I just wanted to let you know that you can email me if you ever want to talk. My mother had 7 miscarriages before me. I was so nervous. Believe me, it will happen. You and your hubs are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you lots of love tonight. I know your seeds of hope are going to grow strong and so will your baby. XOXO
Lindsay – I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve had to endure this terrible loss for a second time. Having suffered a miscarriage myself I know how truly heartbreaking and devastating it can be. I hope you can find comfort in knowing that the Universe unfolds as it should and that there’s nothing you cups have done to prevent this. We are never given anything we can’t handle.
Know that I am thinking about you and that my deepest sympathies are extended to both you and your husband. Stay strong. <3
Such a hard sad thing to loose a little one even if the little one was still so much an idea and dream for the near future. I think its wise to grieve and do things to make real what a loss this is even though so many people have no idea and its, for some reason, a taboo subject that makes many uncomfortable.
Years ago I lost a pregnancy at 13.5 weeks. I was so fortunate to already have had two sons so I can’t imagine loosing my first but it hurt all the same.
Having to say goodbye to the dreams of what that little person would have been like made my heart ache for a long time. It still aches a bit for that matter but it does stop hurting as much as time goes by.
In the meantime, be kind to yourself and go through the steps of grief and hang on to your hubby. So great that you have each other.
RIP little one.
Hang in there mama.
Lindsey, my thoughts are with you and your husband. I can’t imagine what you are going through. I think the seeds of hope package says it perfectly- from the soil of grief life blooms anew. Stay strong, you will get throught this!
I wish I knew exactly what to say, but I am at a loss. All the best to you and your family.
Namaste.
I’m so sorry for your loss. You will get through this due to the love you and your husband share. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
I am so deeply sorry for the life that you have lost. Even in the early stages, this child was loved which is obvious from your words above. In the future, you will make one hell of a momma! Xoxo
I just started following your blog and have really enjoyed reading it. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. If you haven’t been already, you may want to get checked for a thyroid disorder, and especially for presence of thyroid autoantibodies. They are linked to miscarriages, in some cases.
I, too, am sorry for your loss. I am so glad that you are finding comfort in the kindness of others.
My thoughts are with you and I thank you for such an honest and courageous post.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I wish I could find conforting words… It’s a blessing that you’re surrounded by the support and love of so many people.
I’m sorry to hear what happened. Life can be really unfair at times… =/
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Lindsey, you are so brave and courageous.
I am sorry for your loss. I can’t say I know what you’re going through, but I know that you are blessed to have such a supportive husband, circle of friends, and admirers. We are all here for you, quite apparently, and will support you along the way–wherever the way takes you. I think it’s great that you’re speaking up for those who have suffered a miscarriage and felt lost in terms of support and resources. I wish you all the best–because a person like you deserves only the best.
Hugs and positive vibes, Christina
So sorry to hear about this. I was touched by your post and have to agree that there are so many incredibly supportive and loving people out there in blog land. I’m so glad to know that they offered you both help and comfort.
I am so impressed with the honesty of this post. I’m so sorry for your heartbreaking loss – I’ll be sending positive thoughts towards you and your husband.
So sorry for your loss…..I’m just catching up on blog posts now, after our trip. Wish you the best of luck in the future. Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts with us….am thinking of you.
so sorry for your loss…I can relate–had a miscarriage jan 5.2002–took a few months to get pregnant again–my son came home from the hospital on
jan 5.2003–the one year anniversary of our loss……what wonderful little helpers those teas could be-how nice of someone to give them to you-that is an awesome idea-great product idea…..many many well wishes for you in the future.
julie
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I stumbled onto your blog today and have been reading it for the last hour. I know this is belated but I just wanted to say that you are such a strong, positive and kind woman and you really are an inspiration.
Btw, if you are still looking to treat low progesterone levels, I would highly recommend chaste tree extract. After years of suffering from hormonal imbalance, I tried chaste tree on the advice of my herbalist friend and it worked wonders on my body. It’s natural, doesn’t contain synthetic hormones and apparently helps with conception. Anyway, i wish you the best with everything! 🙂
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